Sandy has a nice personality. I find her attractive and her reactions are good. She satisfies my sexual needs. I reckon I must have been seeing her for about two and a half years. If she moved parlours, I'd follow her. I think Sandy enjoys the sex we have, because I always treat her well.
But even if she wasn't enjoying it, it wouldn't put me off - as long as the reactions were OK, as long as she didn't start eating an apple or reading a book or something. That would be a bit off-putting. Short of that, I'm not bothered. When I first decided to go to a prostitute, it was pretty traumatic because you're supposed to just walk in and get on with it.
But as long as the female's responses are right, then that first anxiety is easy to overcome. I came to brothels all through my marriage, even when I was having an affair. It wasn't that I wasn't being satisfied - I was - but males have an urge. Every now and then I have a need, a craving, for a different female. Sex doesn't necessarily mean anything to a male. I mean, it might develop into something, but initially it doesn't mean anything other than sheer excitement.
But I don't think women understand that. Angelo, 23, computer programmer Why am I here? I don't come here for the conversation, that's for sure. I don't care who I see or what she looks like as long as she isn't fat or horrible, and doesn't stink. She can be old, though not much older than, say, If I want to have anal intercourse, or something a bit different, I can generally have it here.
Seriously, women's bums are cute. I love them, and occasionally I want to screw them. There's nothing wrong with that, except not many girls will let you. They've got hang-ups about it being dirty, which it isn't, or that it might hurt. Here, I know that, within reason, there won't be any problem. That's the thing about paying money: The customer is always right. The other thing about being here is that the sex is better, and that's a fact. It's always better with a whore.
The only real problem with being with a whore - and this is a minor one, but I'll say it - is condoms. They always say you have to wear them. If I have girlfriends who want to use condoms, I say: I've got a steady girlfriend at the moment, pretty serious. She's Greek, so my parents are happy. We'll probably get married. The only problem is sex. She was a virgin before me and she's a bit nervous about it and won't do a lot of things. But then you'd expect that.
I would probably be suspicious if she was too eager or knew too much. Deep down, I don't like the idea of being with used goods. I don't get embarrassed about coming here.
My mates know about it; they come too. I don't tell my girlfriend because it's different with women. Anyway, it's none of their business. It'll be the same when I'm married. Dominic, 39, builder In a way, I think this helps my marriage. Sometimes my wife doesn't want to have sex. It could start an argument. But I come here and that's it - we don't have an argument.
Edward, 44, truck driver I've been coming to parlours off and on for the past 20 years. I don't go to a different girl every time. If I have one I like, I stay with her. I don't know what it is about the girl I usually see here that attracts me. She's nothing like my wife. She's younger and smaller, and she does different things without whingeing. My wife won't do oral sex. Being with these girls does make you feel pretty good as a bloke, as a lover I suppose. It's just a good feeling, a good physical sexual feeling.
And paying for it doesn't take any of that away. I suppose I do think of myself as a good lover and I reckon that both of us are getting something out of it, not just me.
I presume the women here would think that. Maybe some of them enjoy being with me, maybe some don't. I think I'd be able to tell if they didn't. Although I suppose it's only a job to them, isn't it? Could make it hard to tell. I'd hope the one I was with would enjoy it. She said she did. Siblings announce incestuous relationship to the world on TV … and their dads are overjoyed.
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