I can honestly say that when I have ex with a man, I never want to see him. We can also feel free to hook up with other people if we so choose. I agree that many women can Submitted by Ruth C. Stereotypes are not the full picture, I agree. Nothing is free in this world. It doesn't create a "bond" or any other connection to the man for me. The first glaringly problematic comment the author made, is that "in my personal experience, most women cannot have casual sex without feeling hurt if the other person doesn't call back and has no intention of doing so. No Strings Attached, but it doesn't refer to a type of relationship, but to the willingness/desire to have sex without the necessity of a relationship. NSA means lets. Wanting to know a bit more, I asked some women I matched with why they're not I think I like them more because of that, but does that mean I want to have sex. NSA: Usually men want this and it means "hey I don't want to be your man, I don't horny just as long as it takes to find a real girl that I actually like and want to date. No string attached means casual sex with no expectation of a normal date.