It stops being NSA when one or both parties have expectations about how the other behaves e. FWB - friends with benefits.
Implies that 1 you're friends and know the person, and 2 there are benefits, namely sex. Notice no money, presents, etc is typically involved. Someone you hook up with that you trust, but that's about it. Some describe FWB as "sex with breakfast" but that's about the limit before it's something more. In this case, the couple actually likes each other, but part of the attraction is the spoiling -- that the girlfriend is getting copious gifts or financial support from the boyfriend.
There are definitely expectations on both sides, and this isn't a NSA relationship. Once it moves to a monthly allowance, it's less NSA, because realistically both sides have strings -- expecting the other to follow through on the commitment from the allowance -- but it's still pretty NSA.
Once you're to the point that you expect the SB or SD to be with you on Christmas and New Years, to not see other people, etc, I'd say you're outside of the NSA realm and moving into more traditional relationship territory. This is where "spoiled girlfriend" comes into play. This is where you start getting into the area where trophy wives happen as well.
Sugar Babies make explicit arrangements with SDs. There are extras that can be negotiated for, or can just be unexpected surprises within an arrangement. Like traveling or shopping. You are what I like to call "shallow dating". Maybe you use fake names, you're not meeting each others' friends, you don't have any expectation of a future together. You are actually dating - no x times per month for y allowance. You know each other's real information. You meet the friends and family, etc. You have a reasonable expectation that you could get married, etc.
This could be a vanilla relationship with no financial aspect or it could be a sugar relationship. FWB is "Friends with Benefits". Like legit you have a friendship with this person and decided to start screwing.
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